(Dec. 17, 2025) – For Hayden, First Tee — Southeast Wisconsin is more than just learning how to golf. It’s a place where he’s grown in confidence, built meaningful friendships, and discovered a love for the game.
Hayden joined First Tee three years ago after his mom, Dana, found the program as a welcoming way for him to get outside, stay active, and learn a sport he could enjoy for the rest of his life. Since then, he’s enrolled year-round in every available session and has become a familiar face on the course.
What keeps Hayden coming back, Dana says, is the people.
“The coaches and staff are consistent,” she shared. “That’s helped him build real rapport, which isn’t always easy.”
One of those coaches is Coach Joey, who connected with Hayden from his very first session. After a stretch of being in different classes, Joey recognized Hayden at the Alternate Shot Challenge and greeted him with a big smile, a small moment that made a big impact. For Hayden, being remembered and encouraged helped build confidence and a sense of belonging.
That connection grew even stronger when Hayden and Joey discovered they share interests in technology and robotics, Hayden’s favorite subjects. Joey, a software engineer by profession, has helped Hayden feel supported not only as a golfer, but as a curious learner off the course as well.
“I feel like I play a lot better now,” Hayden said. “I’m really starting to hit it pretty well.”
That confidence has encouraged him to try new experiences, including events like the Alternate Shot Challenge and Drive, Chip & Putt, opportunities Dana says he likely wouldn’t have pursued without the encouragement and foundation from First Tee.
The program has also helped Hayden strengthen friendships. After he encouraged his close friend Javier to join, the two now play together at Noyes Park Golf Course. Golf has become their shared activity and something that gets them off screens, outdoors, and spending time with peers and supportive adults.
“Having that time with Javier to do something they both enjoy that’s not video games or something like that has been really important,” Dana said. “Building that tighter friendship through a sport has been great for both of them.”
Beyond golf, Hayden is taking what he’s learned into everyday life, as Dana has seen growth in his patience and focus. “He’s learned that taking your time to hit a good shot works better than rushing,” she explained. “That’s carried over to home and school.”
When asked what he enjoys most about First Tee, Hayden didn’t hesitate.
“I have a really good time,” he said.
At First Tee — Southeast Wisconsin, young people are learning life lessons, finding mentors, building friendships, and gaining confidence that will shape their futures. Thank you for being part of the First Tee — Southeast Wisconsin community that make stories like Hayden’s possible.